Avoidant Personality Disorder
Personality disorder is a matter of false judgments of value. Listed below are the false value judgments that are at the root of Avoidant Personality Disorder.
|acceptance; exclusive interpersonal contact with familiars
||criticism, disapproval, rejection; significant interpersonal contact with non-familiars
||fears criticism, disapproval, or rejection; avoids occupational activities that involve significant interpersonal contact
|to be liked
||unwilling to get involved unless certain of being liked
|to be restrained in intimate relations
||attempts to shame or ridicule them
||fears being shamed or ridiculed; shows restraint within intimate relationships
|for the familiar; habit, repetition, routine
||new interpersonal situations
||feelings of inadequacy; inhibited in new interpersonal situations
|to be socially adept and personally appealing
||being seen as socially inept or personally unappealing
||views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or inferior
|familiar, routine activities
||new activities and personal risk; being embarrassed
||is reluctant to take personal risks or to engage in any new activities because they may be embarrassing
|approval and acceptance in social situations
||being criticized or rejected in social situations
||preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social situations
The Disease Perspective
Proposed Revision | APA DSM-5
The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fourth Edition (American Psychiatric Association, 1994, pp. 664-665) describes Avoidant Personality Disorder as a pervasive pattern of social inhibition, feelings of inadequacy, and hypersensitivity to negative evaluation, beginning by early adulthood and present in a variety of contexts, as indicated
by four (or more) of the following:
- avoids occupational activities that involve significant interpersonal contact, because of fears of criticism, disapproval, or rejection;
- is unwilling to get involved with people unless certain of being liked;
- shows restraint within intimate relationships because of the fear of being shamed or ridiculed;
- is preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social situations;
- is inhibited in new interpersonal situations because of feelings of inadequacy;
- views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or inferior to others;
- is unusually reluctant to take personal risks or to engage in any new activities because they may prove embarrassing.
The Dimensional Perspective
Here is a hypothetical profile, in terms of the five-factor model of personality, for Avoidant Personality Disorder (speculatively constructed from McCrae, 1994, pg. 306):
- High Neuroticism
- Chronic negative affects, including anxiety, fearfulness, tension, irritability, anger, dejection, hopelessness, guilt, shame; difficulty in inhibiting impulses: for example, to eat, drink, or spend money; irrational beliefs: for example, unrealistic expectations, perfectionistic demands on self, unwarranted pessimism; unfounded somatic concerns; helplessness and dependence on others for emotional support and decision making.
- Low Extraversion
- Social isolation, interpersonal detachment, and lack of support networks; flattened affect; lack of joy and zest for life; reluctance to assert self or assume leadership roles, even when qualified; social inhibition and shyness.
- High Openness
- Preoccupation with fantasy and daydreaming; lack of practicality; eccentric thinking (e.g., belief in ghosts, reincarnation, UFOs); diffuse identity and changing goals: for example, joining religious cult; susceptibility to nightmares and states of altered consciousness; social rebelliousness and nonconformity that can interfere with social or vocational advancement.
- High Agreeableness
- Gullibility: indiscriminate trust of others; excessive candor and generosity, to detriment of self-interest; inability to stand up to others and fight back; easily taken advantage of.
- High Conscientiousness
- Overachievement: workaholic absorption in job or cause to the exclusion of family, social, and personal interests; compulsiveness, including excessive cleanliness, tidiness, and attention to detail; rigid self-discipline and an inability to set tasks aside and relax; lack of spontaneity; overscrupulousness in moral behavior.
The Behavior Perspective
The Life Story Perspective
Basic Belief: I may get hurt. [Strategy]: Avoidance (Beck, Freeman & associates, pg. 26).
The "idealized self is made up of beliefs about how we should feel, think, or act" (Tamney, pg. 32).
In Cognitive Therapy of Personality Disorders, Aaron T. Beck, Arthur Freeman, and associates (1990) list typical beliefs associated with each specific personality disorder. According to my view, the beliefs and attitudes rationalize and reinforce the idealized image and the compulsive attachments and aversions. They are analogous to Karen Horney's "shoulds" and "neurotic claims." Here are the typical beliefs that they have listed (pp. 359-360) for Avoidant Personality Disorder:
- I am socially inept and socially undesirable in work or social
- Other people are potentially critical, indifferent, demeaning, or
- I cannot tolerate unpleasant feelings.
- If people get close to me, they will discover the "real" me and
- Being exposed as inferior or inadequate will be intolerable.
- I should avoid unpleasant situations at all costs.
- If I feel or think something unpleasant, I should try to wipe it
out or distract myself�for example, think of something else, have a
drink, take a drug, or watch television.
- I should avoid situations in which I attract attention, or I
should be as inconspicuous as possible.
- Unpleasant feelings will escalate and get out of control.
- If others criticize me, they must be right.
- It is better not to do anything than to try something that might
- If I don't think about a problem, I don't have to do anything
- Any signs of tension in a relationship indicate the relationship
has gone bad; therefore, I should cut it off.
- If I ignore a problem, it will go away.
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Avoidant personality disorder (APD) is considered to be an active-detached personality pattern, meaning that avoidants purposefully avoid people due to fears of humiliation and rejection. It is thought to be a pathological syndromal extension of the "normal inhibited" personality, which is characterized by a watchful behavioural appearance, shy interpersonal conduct, a preoccupied cognitive style, uneasy affective expression, and a lonely self-perception
(Millon & Everly, 1985). According to this view, the avoidant pattern seems to range in varying degrees along a symptomological continuum from mild to extreme. In mild cases, a person may be said to be normally shy, whereas extreme cases indicate personality disorder.
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