PTypes - Sensitive Vices

PTypes - Personality Types

Sensitive Vices

Irrational Need Irrational Need to Avoid Idealized Image
(Oldham, pp. 180-81) Personality Disorder

acceptance; exclusive interpersonal contact with familiars criticism, disapproval, rejection; significant interpersonal contact with non-familiars unconditionally accepted; familiar: prefer the known to the unknown; comfortable with and inspired by habit, repetition, and routine fears criticism, disapproval, or rejection; avoids occupational activities that involve significant interpersonal contact

to be liked being disliked well-liked; concerned: care deeply what other people think of them unwilling to get involved unless certain of being liked

to be restrained in intimate relations attempts to shame or ridicule them circumspect: behave with deliberate discretion; don't make hasty judgments or jump in before they know what is appropriate fears being shamed or ridiculed; shows restraint within intimate relationships

for the familiar; habit, repetition, routine new interpersonal situations politely reserved, courteous, self-restrained feelings of inadequacy; inhibited in new interpersonal situations

to be socially adept and personally appealing being seen as socially inept or personally unappealing socially adept, personally appealing views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or inferior

familiar, routine activities new activities and personal risk; being embarrassed plays their role well; does what is expected of them is reluctant to take personal risks or to engage in any new activities because they may be embarrassing

approval and acceptance in social situations being criticized or rejected in social situations socially approved and accepted preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social situations

Sensitive Vices
Irrational Need	Irrational Need to Avoid	Idealized Image (Oldham, pp. 180-81)	Personality Disorder

acceptance; exclusive interpersonal contact with familiars	criticism, disapproval, rejection; significant interpersonal contact with non-familiars	unconditionally accepted; familiar: prefer the known to the unknown; comfortable with and inspired by habit, repetition, and routine	fears criticism, disapproval, or rejection; avoids occupational activities that involve significant interpersonal contact
to be liked	being disliked	well-liked; concerned: care deeply what other people think of them	unwilling to get involved unless certain of being liked
to be restrained in intimate relations	attempts to shame or ridicule them	circumspect: behave with deliberate discretion; don't make hasty judgments or jump in before they know what is appropriate	fears being shamed or ridiculed; shows restraint within intimate relationships
for the familiar; habit, repetition, routine	new interpersonal situations	politely reserved, courteous, self-restrained	feelings of inadequacy; inhibited in new interpersonal situations
to be socially adept and personally appealing	being seen as socially inept or personally unappealing	socially adept, personally appealing	views self as socially inept, personally unappealing, or inferior
familiar, routine activities	new activities and personal risk; being embarrassed	plays their role well; does what is expected of them	is reluctant to take personal risks or to engage in any new activities because they may be embarrassing
approval and acceptance in social situations	being criticized or rejected in social situations	socially approved and accepted	preoccupied with being criticized or rejected in social situations

A vice is a firmly held false belief of the value of something. The irrational needs, or vices, of the Sensitive type are based on particular false values.

A Brief Theory of Bad Character

John M. Oldham and Lois B. Morris (1995). The New Personality Self-Portrait: Why You Think, Work, Love and Act the Way You Do. New York: Bantam. Oldham and Morris list the key characteristics not of an idealized image, but of a style of normal functioning.

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